I am a triple threat that makes no promises for the outcome of our encounters. Just be honored that I’ve chosen you to share a piece of my time with. I am valuable. I offer more than just my looks. Come take a look inside.
This journey of self love can be an exhausting one. #AllSummerSixteen for me was about finding a deeper meaning of self love and finding my Boaz with help from the practicing #TheWait (authors – Devon Franklin & wife, Meagan Good).
I have learned so much about the differences of what I need versus what I desire in my relationships. I even clarified a few of my deal breakers. The discipline of soul searching, finding your truths and a real life solution was an eye opening experiences. After reading #thewait book I felt my spirit man being elevated to the next level. I see the purpose of life trials and tribulations as test further strengthening my faith to receive the fullness of my blessings. Dating while celibate gave me a feeling of mental peace. I was able to to narrow the practice squad and even add few potential team players to the roster.
Listening is key component when practicing #TheWait. Dudes will tell you what you want to hear but if you keep your eyes open long enough, he will show you who he is.
Truth is…once you get over the honeymoon phase, and reality sets in; the question then becomes what other character traits does he possess that can contribute to the building of our wealth, legacy and power. Love and potential doesn’t pay the bills. I was born a goal-digger. Hustle is in my heart. Power runs through my veins. I need compatibility AND chemistry not lust. #TheWait dating has brought out the brawns in me. Navigating through the piles of lies, lust, excessive baggage (both physical and emotional) and deceitful mannerism keeps me in shape. I run the opposite way instead of trying to figure out ‘why’ he was broken. Trying to to fix a man that is broken into a million pieces is physically and mentally impossible. I give it to God, say a pray for his wounded heart, block him then add him to the “do not call list’.
I’m excited about going into this next season equipmented with a better sense of self. Single? or Not Single? I am not going to apologize for being an attractive woman who just so happens to intelligent and powerful. Go ahead judge me because I’m a triple threat. Beauty. Brains. Brawn. Lips #POPn while waving at my haters and naysayers. I stay slayed both physically and spiritually; #BookedandBlessed because I rely on my inner strength and faith combined with core values of Yahweh. Oh yeah and treating people with love and respect despite their shortcomings will also give you favor.
Check out my YouTube musical stress reliever playlist called #Summer16 #BeautyRevenge. I may be flawed (doing this dating stuff) but my makeup is perfect.
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